His secret obsession is a breakthrough program written by relationship expert James Bauer, based on over 12 years worth of research and experience.
It shows women how to tap into a powerful life-long desire all men share, and harness it to transform the way men experience them. This desire is half emotional need and half biological drive, and it is rarely satisfied in life or love.
Once a woman knows how to satisfy this "secret obsession’ she will become a man’s highest priority for life.
This program is already getting incredible results for women in all walks of life across the world. But we need your help to get the word out about it! (And we'll make it very worth your while)
What men value most are those things they have to work hard to get. Hand a man a college diploma, and he won’t value it as much as if he’d had to put in years of study and effort to earn it. Hand a man the perfect girlfriend, and he won’t value her as much as if he’d had to woo her for weeks just to get her to go out with him. This is why playing hard to get works.
But, as you’ve probably already noticed… There’s a BIG problem with playing hard to get. That strategy stops working once he’s actually got you. Something happens when guys decide they’ve won you. It’s almost like they think, “Game over.” Their minds are already on their next challenge.
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Many women give up on love. They never let themselves get too close to a man, for fear of scaring him off. But other women try a different approach. They get help. Relationship coach James Bauer is one of the people they turn to.
He noticed that many clients were coming to him, complaining about guys who were blowing hot and cold. Everything would be going great, and then it was like…
Something would change overnight.
A guy who’d been warm, affectionate and interested would suddenly become distant. He’d no longer have any time for her. He wouldn’t smile in greeting. He’d stop making eye contact. His kisses were brusque. Wanting to help his clients, James investigated.
And what he discovered made sense of everything. He knew why these men were backing away. He knew what they needed … and what they weren’t getting.
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One of the most wonderful things about women is how naturally caring they are. Look at you. You’re always there for your guy. You look after him. You always make time for him. You’d do anything for him.
You never realize that, in the process…
You’re actually taking something away from him. You’re taking away his purpose.
You see, he wants to be your hero. He doesn’t want you to be his hero.
Men love heroes. Look at how many grown men are still fascinated by Marvel comics and superhero movies. Every man on Earth, from the time he was a boy, dreamed of growing up to be the kind of hero who would save the world—and get the girl at the same time. Most men don’t get to indulge their world-saving side in their 9-5 jobs.
Circumstances don’t call for them to rip off their corporate ties and spring into action, revealing their superman side. Maybe they can’t save the world. But they can still get the girl.
Getting the girl is a worthy challenge for an ordinary guy with the heart of a superhero. It takes superhuman confidence. Superhuman charm. Superhuman immunity to pain. Now, all he needs to find is…
A girl who needs a hero. Do You Need a Hero? Let me guess… That’s not you.
You’re strong. You’re independent. You can fix a leaky faucet. You can drive a stick shift. You can take care of yourself. You’re never going to make that Jerry Maguire mistake of looking for a man to complete you. Instead, you have a lot to offer a man. You’re generous. Kind. Loving. Giving to a fault. All you want is to find a man who’s willing to receive all you have to give.
And that’s why heroes aren’t showing up in your life. That’s why you’ve ended up with so many takers instead. Guys who take everything you have and leave you high and dry. If you want a hero, then you need to advertise for one.
It’s broken down into a two-part series and 17-different modules, all of which cover every aspect about dating, finding and maintaining a healthy relationship. this program bridges the gap between men and women to eliminate the separation and confusion that many of us experience.
It consists of the following signals and phrases that can be used by women to get their man to love them and give them the romance they have never had before.
James Bauer is a trained psychologist and relationship coach who has worked with both men and women in relationships for over 12 years. His experience in helping men and women to improve their relationship is backed by both his extensive training as well as his own life experiences.
His Secret Obsession by James Bauer is for women who want to make their relationships better by understanding more about men and what men secretly want.
Oftentimes males and females may feel that they can never truly understand each other or their needs in a relationship.
Bauer’s plethora of experience and education on the topic in conjunction with his personal experiences provides a unique perspective that he gives women a view into in His Secret Obsession.
If you are a woman that is unhappy with your current relationship or even the inability to maintain a relationship- this book is for you. The information provided in this book can be utilized to appeal to your man’s emotional needs and desires to spark change in the relationship.
Your His Secret Obsession course is AMAZING – one afternoon of solid listening, I’ve put it into practice and the effects are phenomenal! You truly have saved our relationship and, while it is only a week later, we are already going from strength to strength. And we both see a wonderful future ahead of us. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.Best investment ever!!!
Thank you James! I found reading His Secret Obsession very inspiring in helping me to understand my husband and has help me to overcome many anger issues I have had with him for what he did to me and our marriage 26 years ago. I have found peace with your readings too and I find all your blogs very helpful and useful. I will be forever grateful to you for sharing your works with not only me but for all the other wives, girlfriends and women who read your works. I thank you for saving my marriage!
Your research and advice was invaluable.My boyfriend has changed from being distant and too busy to see me – and now the opposite is true. I kept being patient for ages. Then I read the section about not bottling it all up, fuming inside. Instead I told him by text how I felt – in a nice way, full of compliments. He immediately asked to see me, he couldn’t wait! We had a lovely time, and I listened well, talked a bit, following your guidance on the power and beauty of silence. I could write a lot more, but for now, I just want to say thank you, thank you x 100!
I just wanted to let you know, I used your tip about getting his curiosity going (I told him I learned something about Dumbledore that he would never believe!) and it worked so well! He texted me right back and I asked if he could guess, and we ended up with this great ongoing text with him very curious about what the answer is, and me telling him how what great guesses he was making! Thank you!
This email came in spot on and just in time to save the day. It is so unbelievably true what you said about indifference and how contagious it could be if care is not taken. For two days up until I read this email, I hadn’t heard from my boyfriend which is a tad unusual, especially as he is off on Thursday nights through the weekend. Yet, it didn’t seem to bother me seeing as I didn’t even miss him. Then this morning, it dawned on me that he could be feeling as indifferent just as much or even a little bit more than myself since he did not bother calling me. So when I read your email this morning, I was like “That’s it … indifference… ” So I called him thereafter and tried to shake things up a little bit and now he is picking me up after work to spend the night at my place. Thank you very much, coach. Please keep it coming
everything you say in your notes makes so much sense. Why don’t we all know this intuitively? I appreciate the coaching up. I’m so glad I saw your ad. Your information has inspired me to strive for the life and relationship I have wanted for so long but did not have the courage to seek. Thank you!
Wow. That was amazing. I met my ex today and I applied your methods onto him. And omg it worked!!!!!(they made so much sense too) He was really affectionate and apologizing for not treating me better the whole time I was with him!!!! Thank you so much for this article. Also I noticed that you’ve been answering peoples comments on the website helping other women out there. That is super generous of you 🙂 (of course no pressure, I know you can’t possibly answer EVERYONE) but I just have to say that you seem to genuinely care and want the women to succeed in relationships. So awesome.
I am totally happy with this course. It has revived my confidence and given me a sense of control. I used to do some of the things mentioned in your course (before ever reading your material) but I had no real target.Your explanation of tapping into the hero instinct was the target to help me focus. I already used 1 thing I learned & already saw immediate positive results! I was amazed! I haven’t even finished reading all modules yet but I intend to reread them many times.
I felt the same way about my long distance relationship and used the programs from James Bauer and Michael Fiore… I bought everything they offered and used the tools… it all worked! It was a valued asset to invest in my life long love… worth so much more because of my true happiness and ability to find a wonderful man and love and be loved the way we deserve to be… priceless! Now my distant and cold relationship has responsed perfect for me man… he’s hot and flooding my email with responses and has even committed himself verbally to me… turns out he was busy and focusing on some family issues and work…if I had followed my first female instinct to talk to him… it would have made him more distant… instead I just used all the tools to attract and text him romantic phrases and in no time we were back better and closer than before!!
I have no way to thank you, and tell you how much I appreciate all the information you give us on your course, teaching us to be cousinous or just like you said, teaching us fishing. In this world with a huge attack information, many times we get lost and anxious, sometimes we get the answers about what to do but we don’t know how were they got, why is that result, so at the end we finally finish falling on many mistakes, is like trying to make mathematics work by only getting the results but never been taught how, why, where does it come from?, but when we are taught from internal being the way to learn is beautiful and your being feels comfortable instead anxious. Your work is invaluable, thank you so much to allow it to be accessible!
they finally contacted me yesterday and quickly took care of the issue. thank you very much for your quick response. There is nio need for James to get involved at this time if he has not already. I am very thankful for the information that I have gotten from James. It helped me meet and keep my man. (A wedding announcement was attached to this email, she’s on her way to being happily married because of James’ work.) Thank you James for teaching me how to show respect to this amazing man! I feel very grateful.
I felt the same way about my long distance relationship and used the programs from James and Michael Fiore …I brought everything they offered and used the tools….it all worked! It was a value asset to invest in my lifelong love… worth so much more because of my true happiness and ability to find a wonderful man and love and be loved the way we deserve to be….priceless! Now my distant cold responded perfect for me man.is hot and. Flooding my emails with responses and has even committed himself verbally to me….turns out he was busy and focusing on some family issues and work…if I had followed my first female instinct to talk to him…it would have made him more distant. Instead I just used all the tools to attract and text him romantic phrases and in no time we were back better and closer than before!!
I want to say to you that your articles stand much higher than most of the stuff anywhere.Really. and I have read a lot. always beautifully written and plain of knowledge and good sense! Thank you!